Healing Chingon

When healing makes you the Villain

Frankie Barrera Season 2 Episode 1

Episode 1 of Season 2 dives into the uncomfortable truth that sometimes your healing makes you the “villain” in other people’s stories. We talk about what happens when you start saying no, set boundaries, and stop rescuing everyone—how friendships, family dynamics, and relationships can shift or even end when you finally choose yourself. Through honest reflection, mantras, and journaling questions, this episode invites you to grieve what you’ve outgrown, reclaim your narrative, and remember that their discomfort doesn’t mean you’re wrong for protecting your peace.